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This is what happened when a gay man realized his ex sent their sex tape to his boss and family

This is what happened when a gay man realized his ex sent their sex tape to his boss and family

Gay guy's ex exposed their sex tape to everyone he knew

An Australian’s ex sent the couple’s sex tape to his boss and his family, as well as uploading naked pictures of him on Facebook.

When the couple split, a few weeks past before anything happened to Mr A.

But then, the ex began to post his naked images on Facebook.

And when the revenge porn victim went to confront his ex in person, the ex fractured his eye socket.

Following the altercation, explicit images were sent directly to his mother and family and tagged friends, clients and work colleagues in the Facebook posts.

A sex tape had also been sent to friends, family and colleagues.’

‘My friends were calling and asking if I was aware about what was going on,’ the man, only identified as Mr A, said.

‘While I wasn’t around he [the ex] had accessed my Dropbox, Facebook, email and other social media.

Lesbian blogger Chrissy Chambers calls for end to revenge porn
Lesbian blogger Chrissy Chambers calls for end to revenge porn

‘The worst was when my mother called up and told me she didn’t need to see me having sex.’

The ex also published Mr A’s phone number and address on online dating sites and requested people unknown to him to visit.

‘While the images were taken down off Facebook mostly within a few hours, the email to my work was not able to be retracted,’ Mr A said.

‘The damage by then was done. In one way it’s good because there’s nothing hidden about me any more, but on the same token, my job, my ability to perform, has nothing to do with who I sleep with.

‘The worst was when my mother called up and told me she didn’t need to see me having sex.’

‘I wasn’t hired because of who I sleep with, I was hired because of what I do, and it makes it difficult.’

Mr A cannot explain why his ex did this, saying ‘no explanation rationalizes it or makes sense of it’.

‘This isn’t high school revenge. I went to bed every night not wanting to wake up the next morning. I just didn’t want to deal with it,’ he said.

Thankfully, Mr A’s work and boss were supportive.

In a response to the ex, his boss replied: ‘This says nothing about Mr A and everything about you.’